Virginia had their wedding date booked with me nearly a year before the date!  I’m so glad she found me and that I had the opportunity to spend so much time with her and her now-hubby!

When a bride meets with me for a consultation, one of the first questions I ask is whether they will see each other prior to the ceremony.  Many a time I’ve gotten a weird look with an obvious “No! Of course not!” – then I explain why I ask, and why I urge my brides to consider a “First Look”.

The main reason is the fact that with a first look we can get almost all of the photos with the bridal party done before the ceremony – you wont leave your guests waiting for the reception for 1-2 hours.

The second reason, and the reason I think you should consider it the most, is the intimacy involved.  No crowding, no gawking, just you and your love.  Personally, I love the cuddle time, and the nervousness of the groom as he waits for her to tap him on the shoulder.

Mostly, I love the love that beams from this moment.  Sure, it’s great to see his face as you’re walking down the aisle. But there’s so much distraction, so much going on..the first look gives you a moment that belongs to no one else.

This is Veronica and Jonathan’s first look: